A free workbook that walks you through writing a Legacy Letter in four simple steps, so the people you love can hear your voice long after you're gone.
Wills deal with what you owned. A Legacy Letter deals with everything else: what you believed, what you learned the hard way, the stories you'd want retold, and the things you'd want said one more time. It takes an afternoon to write and it will be read for decades. Most people have never heard of one, and everyone who receives one keeps it forever.
Also known as a spiritual will or ethical will. There's no legal weight to it and no right way to write it. The workbook simply gives you the shape, the prompts and the blank pages.
Why these letters matter, and what she has watched them do for the families left behind.
The difference between a will, an advance care plan and a letter, in plain terms.
Naming the people who shaped you, and saying the things that often go unsaid.
The lessons you'd want passed on, and the beliefs you've come to hold.
The moments worth retelling, from the ordinary to the ones nobody knows.
How to close: forgiveness, permission, hope, and what you wish for them next.
Short questions to get the first sentence out of the way.
Ruled pages to write the letter itself, or a draft before you write it by hand.
Who should hold it, and how to make sure it's found when it's needed.
People imagine a Legacy Letter has to be profound. It doesn't. The lines families read over and over are usually the plainest ones: I was proud of you, this is what I learned, here is what I hope for you.
If writing this has you wondering about the rest, your service, your wishes, what you'd want your family not to have to decide, we're happy to talk it through. Pre-planning conversations are free and never pushy.