The Farewell Planner | Rite of Passage Funerals Pre-planning toolkit The Farewell Planner A gentle, guided way to plan your own farewell. Answer the questions below at your own pace. Your responses will help create a personalised plan that reflects your wishes and brings peace of mind to you and your family. Your Details Full Name Email Address Phone Number (Optional) Postcode (Optional) What Matters Most Choose Whatever Feels True — As Many as You Like Family first Faith Simplicity Nature Humour & lightness Tradition Independence Creativity Community Quiet & privacy Gratitude Adventure What Matters Most to You Share what's truly important to you - this helps create a farewell that reflects who you are. Your Life Philosophy Proudest Moments or Achievements Most Cherished Memories Personal Touches Things That Brought You Joy — Choose as Many as Apply Nature & outdoors Music & singing Art & creativity Cooking & food Gardening & plants Reading & learning Animals & pets Travel & adventure Favorite Things Hobbies & Passions Traditions You Loved Your Sense of Humor End-of-Life Wishes Preferred Disposition Burial Cremation Natural Burial Body Donation Undecided Additional Thoughts on Disposition Casket/Container Preference Eco-friendly casket Traditional casket Simple container Undecided Casket/Container Details Service Style Service Atmosphere — Choose as Many as Apply Peaceful & calm Joyful & celebratory Intimate & personal Traditional & formal Casual & relaxed Connected to nature Preferred Service Type Traditional Service Celebration of Life Intimate Gathering Memorial Service Direct Disposition (no service) No Service Preferred Location Expected Number of Attendees Select range... Very intimate (under 10 people) Intimate (10-20 people) Small (20-50 people) Medium (50-100 people) Large (100+ people) Preferred Timing Select timing... Within days of passing Within a week 2-3 weeks Within a month Flexible timing Additional Service Preferences Ceremony Details Elements You'd Like Included — Choose as Many as Apply Live music Photo slideshow Video tribute Floral arrangements Candles or lighting Personal symbols or items Moment of silence Special ritual Religious or Spiritual Elements Religious service Prayers Religious readings Spiritual but not religious Secular ceremony Religious/Spiritual Details Preferred Officiant Music & Readings Music Style Preferences — Choose as Many as Apply Classical Folk Hymns Contemporary Instrumental Nature sounds Entrance Music Additional Music Preferences Exit/Recessional Music Readings or Poems Speakers You'd Like Involved Eulogy Preferences Personal Messages Message to Your Family This will be included in your farewell plan. Letter To Specific Person Your Letter Any Special Requests Care Directives Organ Donation Yes, I wish to donate No, I do not wish to donate Undecided Medical Care Preferences Palliative Care Preferences Family & Notifications Primary Emergency Contact Emergency Contact Phone Who Should Be Notified First Executor or Legal Representative Personal Messages Message to Your Family This will be included in your farewell plan. Letter To Specific Person Your Letter Any Special Requests Care Directives Organ Donation Yes, I wish to donate No, I do not wish to donate Undecided Medical Care Preferences Palliative Care Preferences Contact Preferences How Would You Like Us to Follow Up? Email Phone Call No follow up needed Marketing Communications I consent to receive occasional updates and resources from Rite of Passage Funerals Download My Plan